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December 2007

Tuesday, 25 December 2007

Three best moments of December 25

My three favourite moments of today:

  1. When Mikaela woke up this morning and came out to the living room (that is, I carried her out): Liam was desperately trying to interest her in her Santa presents, but all she had eyes for was the Christmas tree, put up by us last night and decorated by Liam while we slept in (till 7:30). She was too busy oohing and aahing over it and the pretty wrapped presents under it to be interested in new toys.
  2. When Liam disappeared after lunch, while the rest of us were still at the table: I wondered what was keeping him occupied, and when I went to find him he was quietly drawing and painting (with glitter paint pens) with the new super pack of drawing stuff his Pa gave him. Seeing Liam quietly occupied is not all that common!
  3. Driving home late enough (after 9pm) to see the Christmas lights and listening to Liam point them out to Mikaela, and Kaely fairly sing with the pleasure of seeing them.

Okay, opening all those lovely pressies was fun, and the food! Yum. Oh, and the lavish praise for the gingerbread house Liam and I made was rather nice too. But those were my favourite moments.

Thursday, 20 December 2007

garden notes

  • Finally planted out two bits of rose geranium that have been sitting in water for weeks and had nice roots  - one in the (currently vacant) chook run and one in a pot
  • Watered in the lambs ears and native gerberas (are they really native?) Liam and I stuck in the ground yesterday.

Monday, 10 December 2007

Today is Human Rights Day

Human Rights Day, from Amnesty International Australia:

Today on Monday 10 December we celebrate Human Rights Day.

This date commemorates the United Nations General Assembly's adoption of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights on 10 December 1948.

Universal Declaration of Human Rights 1948
Article 19
Everyone has the right to freedom of opinion and expression; this right includes freedom to hold opinions without interference and to seek, receive and impart information and ideas through any media and regardless of frontiers.

At a time when millions of Amnesty International Australia supporters around the world are writing letters of support, hope, inspiration and expressing their opinions about human rights -  it is an especially pertinent time to think of those who are not permitted to freely express their opinions.

Sunday, 09 December 2007

Summer

It's a traditional summer afternoon:
Thirty degrees outside (Celsius)
Liam has fallen asleep watching, of all things, golf on the TV (having begged to be allowed to watch it)
The cat is also sound asleep
And the husband and toddler are AWOL.
Delightful.

Tuesday, 04 December 2007

From time to time I decide to start garden blogging - you know, recording what we plant when, what works, what doesn't, when it flowers or fruits etc. But then I forget about it (much like the garden). So what's different this time? Nothing. but I am feeling very excited about the garden again.

Since the beginning of Spring we have been working fairly consistently in it, getting veggies in, mulching and planting natives out the front (over what was lawn), weeding and mulching existing beds that have been neglected badly since we moved in six and a half years ago. I've been afraid that it's going to turn out like our house does every time we tidy up. At first we're determined to keep it tidy, but each day it gets a little worse, until it takes another huge effort to make it presentable. But so far we are keeping up with the gardening we've done - I think there'll be years of work to reverse the damage the couch grass is doing, but we're pulling it out as it comes up again (and trying to get the whole root) and trying to plant more and more other things to supress it (like gazanias and violets), if that's even possible.

For the record, our vegie garden is currently nurturing tomatoes, zucchinis, borage, buttercrunch lettuce (most of those are in a pot on the deck actually) and butternut pumpkin seedlings. Actually none of those are in the vegie garden proper, cause we've temporarily moved the chooks in there. Most of these seedlings are in a new bed, pretty small (2x2.4m) which we (mostly I actually, since Chris had hurt his back) built a few weeks ago - a few sleepers around the outside, newspaper over the little bit of grass that was growing, and lucerne, cow poo and straw on top, with the seedlings pocket planted. They are all doing really well I'm happy to say. And the pumpkins, which I planted outside the garden since there was no room in it, are also very happy. They're in what was chook run, so they're probably digging down to very nice soil underneath, though I pocket planted them on top with some straw fliched from the new garden.

The only foods we are currently able to harvest from the garden are the remains of the parsley (it's gone to seed but we can still pick some - what the chooks are can't reach), lemons (oh so many lemons) and the fabulous buttercrunch lettuces which I only planted two or three weeks ago. Oh and of course a few spring onions and garlic chives which we have in pots on the deck. The garlic chives are perennial but both they and the spring onions have also self seeded from last year. So not much at the moment, but it is still so satisfying to be able to eat out of the garden at all, after about 4 years (from when Liam was born) of doing almost nothing with it.

Monday, 03 December 2007

Stepping back

In allowing them to learn simple tasks and to feel their way into responsibility for the groups and for the camps, thereby making them their own, she had to break a lifelong habit of organizing chivvying and taking over. She had to let them blunder; she had to wait while they did in hours what she'd do in minutes; and she had to accepts that some would fail. (Drusilla Modjeska, Poppy, McPhee Gribble, Ringwood, 1990, p. 146.)

When I find myself at a loss in my writing I sometimes pick up Poppy, or some other novel I admire, and read a bit to see what inspiration it might give me. But in this case I am more reminded of parenting than inspired in writing. I'm not terribly good at this part of parenting - stepping back and letting Liam do in hours what I could do in minutes, without "chivvying and taking over". I need to get better at it.